What is love? That’s the question, isn’t it?
I think about it often, and everytime I think about it, I have a different answer.
It’s sacrifice, trust, respect, commitment, a united front … and the list goes on and on. It’s everything. It comes in many forms. We all need it and deserve it.
Today, I see love as forever. Read about a man whose singer-turned-actress fiance got burned on a film set. During an interview, he broke down and said that apart from her feet and toes, “all other parts of her legs are completely destroyed”. She suffered third degree burns on 54% of her body, mostly her back and legs. I don’t know this man, but to see him stand by her and stand up for her moves me deeply. She recovered and they got married.
Makes me think. A man meets a woman and falls in love with her. He loves her eyes, lips, and the way her body feels. He loves the way she talks, moves, and sleeps. But one day, she can no longer see or walk. What does he do?
Everyone has their breaking point. It is very easy to take a person for granted for so long when they continue to love you despite your ways, but don’t get it confused, though some people’s skin is thicker than others, everyone has a point in their life where they will get tired of being mistreated.
Instead of taking people for granted that love you, show them how much you appreciate them each day. This can be done by simply honoring them and doing small things to make them happy. This may also be done by just expressing your love to them in different and creative ways. Show how highly you value their love, and their presence in your life by going out of your way to do so. We are all given chances, but you never know when the last chance may be. Show your love, dont take them for granted!
If you ever want to receive the good things in life that you truly deserve you have to continue on your journey towards them. In the road of life, and in the pursuit of the life we have always wanted, the goals, the dreams, and achieving everything we have envisioned for ourselves to achieve, we will often be confronted with turmoil, and we will often be forced to choose to decide whether we want to continue to push hard in life or not.
There is only failure in our life, if we choose to step out of fighting the war, failure doesn’t come by just losing a single battle, failure comes when we refuse to keep walking down the road that we are supposed to be walking down.
Just because right now may be a bad time in your life, doesn’t mean that things will never get better. Keep pushing forward, keep hoping, and keep moving forward to achieve your dreams.
A lot of times we allow life and its stressors to take us to points in which we just shut down, lose hope, and lose faith, instead of allowing ourselves to continue in the pace, and in the direction that God wants to take us.
The reality in each situation that we face is that God’s wisdom is always there for us to feed on, even in times we feel alone, lost, and misguided. When you just allow yourself to let go of the wheel, and trust that God is going to take control of the spiritual vehicle you are driving, then supernatural things will start to happen in your life.
Many don’t realize the power of making the decision of whether to truly believe, and to not worry, not fret, and live a life full of God’s guidance instead of their own. Be committed to the belief that God will take care of situations that you simply can’t, be consistent with this belief, and God will consistently work inside of you.
Une femme a juste besoin d’être aimé. Une femme a besoin beaucoup de choses: l’amour, l’attention, de soins, le respect et les compliments, des fleurs pour aucune raison, les mots aimables et bien plus encore. Trop? Peut-être. Mais celui qui va lui donner tout cela - obtiendrez bien plus encore!!!